Sorry if you were misled. I am not a "hotmom" I am a "hotmom" as in a pissed off mom. Join me on a journey from "super religious" mom to "anarchist" mom.
Saturday, February 28, 2009
HAPPY ANNIVERSARY!!!!
He was deported for missing a trial hearing with INS at their office when he first came into the country five years earlier. My daughter had just found out she was pg and they had been married for four months when he got picked up. All the myths you hear about well if they are married, or if they have kids, or if they have been productive citizens for five years, none of that mattered.
Because he had a false social sec card to pay taxes, yes to pay taxes, he has a lifetime ban from the U.S. They can never live in the U.S ever again. They have gone through all the paperwork and lots of money only to be denied again and again. Very difficult.
The good news is they now have two lovely children, good jobs and a wonderful life here in Costa Rica. And you know what? They don't deport people here who have families :) You can check out her blog at www.lifeafterdeportation.blogspot.com. If anyone has questions about deportation they are the people to ask about it.
Friday, February 27, 2009
POLITICS
Maybe it it just me because being in Costa Rica I am watching this all unfold like a bad dream. I try to only watch the news once a week to make sure you all over there are still kicking. But really I just get angry when I think that little pep rally really is supposed to make people feel better. We were cracking up to be honest with you.
I believe I have two jobless boys in the U.S. and I can assure they are not reassured by the pep rally. The following quotes summarize my feelings. I found them on a blog that I really like and she finds all kinds of cool stuff over there. Looks like Thomas Jefferson had been there and done that and knew where we were headed.
1.. When we get piled upon one another in large cities, as in Europe, we shall become as corrupt as Europe. Thomas Jefferson
2.. The democracy will cease to exist when you take away from those who are willing to work and give to those who would not. Thomas Jefferson
3.. It is incumbent on every generation to pay its own debts as it goes. A principle which if acted on would save one-half the wars of the world. Thomas Jefferson
4.. I predict future happiness for Americans if they can prevent the government from wasting the labors of the people under the pretense of taking care of them. Thomas Jefferson
5.. My reading of history convinces me that most bad government results from too much government. Thomas Jefferson
6.. No free man shall ever be debarred the use of arms. Thomas Jefferson
7.. The strongest reason for the people to retain the right to keep and bear arms is, as a last resort, to protect themselves against tyranny in government. Thomas Jefferson
8.. The tree of liberty must be refreshed from time to time with the blood of patriots and tyrants.
9. To compel a man to subsidize with his taxes the propagation of ideas which he disbelieves and abhors is sinful and tyrannical. Thomas Jefferson
10. Thomas Jefferson said in 1802: 'I believe that banking institutions are more dangerous to our liberties than standing armies. If the American people ever allow private banks to control the issue of their currency, first by inflation, then by deflation, the banks and corporations that will grow up around the banks will deprive the people of all property until their children wake-up homeless on the continent their fathers conquered.'
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter. "-Martin Luther King Jr.
Thursday, February 26, 2009
BOYFRIENDS
Now for the really weird thing. My daughter is seeing a boy who is just like her brother. I mean he looks like him, talks like him, and is even born the same year as him, making him a horse. We keep teasing her that she is trying to replace her brother, who she complained about bitterly because he teased her so unmercifully.
I guess genetics are pretty darn strong. You know the saying the apple does not fall far from the tree? I think that means you can only change yourself or those you are attracted to so much. They also say that you marry someone you live six blocks away from. That makes sense since you really dont meet too many people out of that area.
So now we are trying to remind my 15 year old about all these things and more. The real problem is this kid is truly nice. He went through his party phase young and does not drink, smoke or take drugs. He treats her with respect and even gets along with the old man. That is the scary part.
My hubby invited him to go fishing with he and my son-in-law. Now that is too far! He just seems to get along so well with the family that I have to be careful that she does not get too serious with him at such a young age. I got married at 17 and take my word for it, it aint easy!
We even had her teach a FHE lesson out of her Standards for Youth pamphlet and had him read the page on dating and relationships. I know that is a little bold of us, but in my experience as parents we have to be bold. The really good part is he does not speak English so I can tell her things when he is sitting right there that I would not normally say. Like go change your shorts those are too short and so on.
It is always a bit tricky in these turbulant years, but at least we are not too busy that we cannot keep a very close eye on things. The joys of being the second to the youngest. Either you are being watched very closely or completely ignored, which she does not get the leisure of right now! Maybe someday we will be too busy making millions, but for now we get to keep a very good eye, or in my husbands case four eyes on her and the boyfriend.
Tuesday, February 24, 2009
ICE
My daughters boyfriend was over so I was going to have him call them to put in a work order. Low and behold a ICE truck pulled up a couple of doors from us to work on a line. So we ran out to ask them to look at our lines and fix our internet. He said no can do. You have to call in a work order and wait your turn.
He did come in the house to take a look. Of course then he wanted to know who hooked up our internet. I wanted to tell him, but dont have enough words in my spanish vocab. that we had a friend do it because they had screwed it up. Probably good thing I did not have the words ha?
Anyhow hopefully soon we will get reconnected with the world as we know it. In the meantime guess I will get some cleaning done and maybe even get my classes organized. It is sure amazing how connected you get to the internet. We have only had our connection for a few months but I sure hate coming to the internet cafe. Plus it is up to three hundren colones, or better known as fifty cents an hour. Plus I have trouble typing on these computers as they put all the exclamations different places, so you just don{t get any!
Monday, February 23, 2009
LOVED
Saturday, February 21, 2009
THERE ARE NO ACCIDENTS
Friday, February 20, 2009
TEACHING ENGLISH
We got so frustrated last year that we finally gave up on them and walked away. It was hard to do because we really did like and enjoy the students. They are very respectful and polite. They think you are really smart and call you prof. It was pretty funny.
So now we are running and teaching our massage school, Ricks internet business, me and Rebekahs blooming businesses, and teaching English. It sure is a good thing we retired early and moved to Costa Rica! I'm just joking, the most we ever work in a given week would still be about 12 hours each, with all the jobs combined! A great way to live.
Now that we have survived the first week of kinder, are half way through our massage session, and got new jobs all in one week I think we need to head for the beach for some recovery time.
Thursday, February 19, 2009
WHAT'S FOR DINNER?
Spark People sends great recipes like this all of the time as well as exercises, they are an awesome site if you are looking for a little motivation, or just need some cool recipes that are on the leaner side.
Wednesday, February 18, 2009
THE PARENT TEST
Tuesday, February 17, 2009
BIGGEST LOSERS EAT GUESS WHAT?
The article says what I have always told my kids and clients, do not eat out! You can make any meal you can eat out soooo much healthier and with about half the fat. When my oldest son got married to his wife they were both working and quickly fell into the fast food habit. He weighed about 175 when they got married and got up to about 250!
Once he cuts out the fast food and starts cooking it makes an awfully big difference. He is now under 200 for the first time in about 8 years. My hubby and I have never been big eating out people, that is our only saving grace I am sure.
Not to brag but no one cooks as good or better than I do. That is the thinking with the biggest loser, if they learn to cook their own food they will not eat out. It just tastes sooo much better homecooked. The article is here in case you are interested.
By JULIA MOSKIN
Published: February 3, 2009
NOTHING is off-limits on “The Biggest Loser,” the reality show that pits morbidly obese people against one another to see who can lose weight the fastest and win the $250,000 prize.
Contestants endure tearful, grueling workouts and submit to public weigh-ins wearing only bike shorts (and for the women, sports bras). They cry. They vomit. They backstab.
The one thing they almost never do on camera is eat.
“The food that you’re used to, you can’t have, and the food you can have, you do not want,” said Vicky Vilcan, a 5-foot-6-inch finalist from Houma, La., who weighed 246 pounds at the beginning of the last season. Now at 145 pounds, she eats broccoli and spinach but says she was “repulsed” by most vegetables when she was on the show. “I wouldn’t eat a string bean that wasn’t smothered in bacon and onions.”
Watch an episode of “The Biggest Loser,” now in its seventh season on NBC, and see the pitfalls of the American diet written extra-large: cheap, high-calorie snacks everywhere, days spent in cars and cubicles and a near disappearance of home cooking.
The contestants are avatars for every slothful viewer on the sofa, waging the epic battle between willpower and waffle fries. While exercising 6 to 10 hours a day and fighting off the doughnuts and pizza that diabolical producers put in their paths may be difficult, the biggest challenge, and the one that will determine whether they remain thinner, is to permanently change their relationship with food.
First, they literally redevelop the sense of taste. “The food that got them to this point is salty, sweet, fatty, crunchy,” said Bob Harper, a trainer on the show since the first season in 2004, describing the fast food and snacks that are the steady diet of most contestants. “They lose their taste buds, they lose their hunger cues and they want what they want when they want it.”
Second, they learn fundamental cooking skills that they — like many Americans — have lost, or never had.
“Most of them do not have the basic ability to cook a meal at home and very little understanding of how much fat and salt is in restaurant food,” said Cheryl Forberg, the show’s nutritionist, “even on the supposedly healthy part of the menu.” While the show has been criticized as presenting a dangerous and unsustainable level of weight loss, recipes from it are sensible enough and have been collected in two cookbooks. Given the program’s popularity, it’s not surprising that both are in the top 10 on the Amazon best-seller list for cookbooks. Together, “The Biggest Loser Cookbook” and “The Biggest Loser Family Cookbook” have sold more than two million copies.
Contestants climb a steep and brutal learning curve in the kitchen, since they have to do all their own cooking.
“There’s no chef whipping up spa cuisine,” Ed Brantley, a contestant from last season, said glumly.
While on their “ranch” — a luxurious house outside Malibu, Calif., — in the four months of taping, contestants are given a calorie budget, recipes and a list of forbidden foods: no white flour, white sugar, butter, or anything that contains them. From there, they have to learn to feed themselves.
“It wasn’t pretty,” said Mr. Brantley’s wife, Heba Salama, who began the show as the heaviest woman ever to compete, at 294 pounds. “The kitchen was full of weird ingredients like quinoa and kale. It was the blind leading the blind.”
On a recent episode, the guest chef, Curtis Stone, gently guided Dave Lee, a 23-year-old contestant in Raleigh, N.C., who weighed 396 pounds when filming began, into the produce section of a supermarket. “I don’t see a lot of things that look familiar here,” Mr. Lee said. He cautiously accepted a taste of cilantro and brightened when he was able to identify it as “something in salsa.”
“This,” Mr. Stone said, handing Mr. Lee a spice rack, “is going to save your life.”
Even if home cooking is of the fried-chicken-and-mashed-potatoes variety, it rarely produces extreme obesity, said Barry Popkin, a nutritional epidemiologist at the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill. “Almost any kind of cooking you can produce in a kitchen is healthier than fast food.” The decline of home cooking worldwide, he said, is an underlying cause of obesity
“People are eating more, and more often,” Dr. Popkin said. “And the foods that they are consuming almost always replace meals cooked in a kitchen and eaten at a table.” It is difficult to quantify a decline in cooking skills, but many studies show that time in the kitchen has declined steeply since 1965, when American women spent a weekly average of 13 hours cooking. Last month the government of Britain, where obesity is spreading rapidly, passed a law requiring all secondary-school students to attend cooking classes.
Today, women in the United States report spending an average of 30 minutes a day preparing meals. The percentage of women who are overweight has risen to about 65 percent from about 30 percent in the 1960s. Cooking and eating well is much harder than just eating less, “Biggest Loser” contestants said.
“The first two weeks, you’re throwing up so much from working out, you’re so tired, the last thing you want to do is eat,” said Mr. Brantley, a chef in Raleigh, who in the last season lost 139 pounds (more than 40 percent of his body weight).
Next, Ms. Salama said, you become ravenous. “You want to eat everything you see,” she said.
But soon, food becomes the devil they love to control. Every contestant is required to eat a minimum number of calories each day and is supposed to keep a daily food journal to prove it. But many of them actually eat less.
“It gets so you crave that feeling of going to bed with hunger pains in your stomach,” said Erik Chopin, a Long Island deli owner who won the show in 2006, going to 193 pounds from 407. Mr. Chopin said the absence of the foods he loves helped. “It’s not like you can go in the kitchen and make yourself a bacon, egg and cheese on a roll,” he said. “More oatmeal wasn’t very tempting.”
The 24-hour surveillance helped, too. “You’re accountable to your team, you’re accountable to your trainer and you’re accountable to the American people for what you eat,” Mr. Chopin said. “How stupid would you feel to sit there stuffing your face on national television?”
Most contestants say it is surprisingly easy to resist food in the throes of competition. “You learn to get over being hungry, like you get over the pain of the workouts,” Ms. Salama said. “The first temptation, it’s very hard to think clearly when you smell all that sugar, but you learn that you can say no.”
During scheduled “temptations,” contestants are bribed to eat junk food with prizes like cash and calls home, sometimes while locked in a dark room with mountains of candy. “We want to simulate the real world in there,” said Dave Broome, a co-creator of the show. “At home, there’s a McDonald’s on every corner, there’s a birthday cake at the office every afternoon, there are friends who will encourage them to eat.”
When the contestants return home to live like the rest of us, without personal trainers and cash prizes, how do they adjust to eating in the real world? Like Oprah Winfrey, who recently acknowledged that she once again weighs more than 200 pounds, the contestants say that the slide backward can be slow, but for some of them it may be inevitable.
Although Mr. Chopin sold his deli after his victory (“I was worried that the quality control alone would make me fat”), he has gained back more than 100 pounds. Most contestants say they did not expect to maintain their entire weight loss once at home. Many have gained back 50 pounds or more, some have continued to drop and all say they have abandoned the fasting, asparagus binges (asparagus, a mild diuretic, temporarily reduces weight) and all-coffee strategies they used while on the show.
What lessons can be learned from the blood, sweat and tears that pour freely on the ranch? Simple: count your calories, exercise and learn to cook.
“Twenty minutes in the kitchen will save you three hours on the StairMaster” said Devin Alexander, a chef in Los Angeles who developed the recipes for the cookbooks. “You can’t trust restaurant food to be low fat.”
Mr. Brantley says that after six days of salad, grilled chicken and air-popped popcorn, he allows himself one day to eat real ice cream, blue-cheese dressing and other foods he loves.
“There’s no such thing as low-fat foie gras,” he said.
HAPPY THOUGHTS
Yeah it is a good day after all. Maleah was ready for school an hour before it was time to go. She finally agreed to let Hannah pick her up after school so I could go for a "talk" with a guy who needs English teachers. I love teaching and we are already half way done with our massage class, so looking for something to keep me busy.
Rebekah and I are also working hard on getting our "No Excuses" program going. Lots of research and leg work to get ourselves organized. Thank goodness this one does not entail doing another web, or blog site! Just lots of fun motivating people to take care of their one and only precious body they will ever, ever have. Doesn't that sound fun!
Monday, February 16, 2009
THE GREAT DEPRESSION ?
“I was relieved when the Crash came. I was released…I became me, I became alive. Other people didn’t see it that way. They were throwing themselves out of windows. Someone who lost money found that his life was gone. When I lost my possessions, I found my creativity…
We thought American business was the Rock of Gibraltar. We were the prosperous nation, and nothing could stop us now…There was a feeling of continuity. If you made it, it was there forever. Suddenly the big dream exploded. The impact was unbelievable.”
“Here were all these people living in old, rusted-out car bodies. I mean that was their home. There were people living in shacks made of orange crates. One family with a whole lot of kids were living in a piano box. This wasn’t just a little section, this was maybe ten-miles wide and ten-miles long. People were living in whatever they could junk together.”
FIRST DAY OF SCHOOL :(
Saturday, February 14, 2009
PHAT PARTY
It would be great because people could share what has and has not worked for them. We could teach them the correct ways to workout and how to check heart rate. We could even have drawings for cool prizes, like t-shirts, cookbooks, and exercise mats. Yeah I think it sounds fun, gotta hit my buisness buddy with the idea, but I think she will love it.
We both love helping people get and maintain a healthy weight, as well as just plain ole having fun getting into shape and staying there. The more I think about it the more I like it.
HAPPY VALENTINES DAY FROM COSTA RICA
My five year old was telling me yesterday all about how we were going to go out for dinner on Valentines. I told her just me and daddy were going out to dinner. She said "yeah but it is dia de amor, on the t.v. they show them going out to dinner". I explained that mommys and daddies and boyfriend and girlfriends go out to dinner. Kids just get little gifts and exchange gifts. She was bummed out for a little while but got over it when her big sister gave her a box of chocolates.
My 15 yr old did not say anything to her boy friend because she did not want him to feel bad about not having any money. So the past couple of days neither one of them said anything. Today they were talking on the phone and my daughter heard his mother say something in the background. He mumbled to Hannah, "feliz dia". Hannah said "que?" He mumbled it again and she just laughed.
Then the best one is my husband. I ordered him Godiva chocolates a couple of weeks ago. Well the problem with ordering from Aerocasillas is the fact they go through your package and write on the ticket what it is! So much for that surprise. He was still happy though and that is what matters.
I wish the best day ever to all and hope you get to enjoy it with someone you love. As my son in jail says, "I have to spend the day with dudes, dudes I don't even like !"
Friday, February 13, 2009
COMBINED SITES
Micahs blog takes a lot of time and I have been trying to get his poetry book done. It is going to be good, and Jesse is working on illustrations for the book. Jesse of course wants me to send him the transcript so he will know best how to illustrate it.
My daughter spent the morning yesterday at the U.S embassy being verbally abused. Here we are U.S. citizens and she was going down to file his birth abroad papers so that she could get a passport for her baby boy. For some reason the people working in the embassy decided they would target her for the all day wait game.
She finally went to the counter to ask what the problem was. They told her she did not have enough proof that she had spent at least five years in the U.S. Isn't that idiotic! She had her high school diploma, her marriage certificate, and the babies birth certificate. So now they want pictures of her pg. and medical records and her transcripts from high school! They tried to speak spanish to her, I think just to check it out. She just looked at them and said please speak english!
Of course the person helping her could not speak english or spanish so she was in tears by the time she left. We will definately be writing some letters on this issue. If you can't be treated like a human there where the heck are you going to be treated like a human?
Thursday, February 12, 2009
NO MORE STIMULUS PLEASE?
It looks like the American people have been sold a bill of goods. Do you realize that 60% of every dollar you make goes to the government for taxes? Now they have passed a stimulus package, the second one to date, that will give you back a little bit of your money. Aren't they nice?
The bad part is they forgot to tell you they borrowed the money from your future income to give you this little bit back, oops! Why are more Americans not outraged by this? Because they are too busy feeling fear. If your generous benefactors can keep you in fear, they will avoid you thinking about the situation and getting angry.
I wrote an article for ezines about five things moms could do to help out in this time of economic upheavel. I still say that we can raise babies and children much cheaper than we believe we can. The first five years my husband and I were married we made under ten thousand dollars a year. Was it tough? Heck yeah!
The good part was we learned how to live on a lot less than we would ever make. We did not have a credit card. We bought nothing on credit. We used cloth diapers, only nursed, and cooked everything from scratch. It was not always easy, but we were actually able to save money at that time.
Our children are all very good at living on next to nothing. When we get together we all want beans, rice, and good old fashioned real food. Actually I thought I was good until I met my son in law. He could squeeze a dollar so hard he could squeeze poop out of the eagle!
Wednesday, February 11, 2009
KIDS HEALTH
Blueprint for a Healthy Diet
The food pyramid is still the best blueprint for building a balanced diet. At http://www.mypyramid.gov/, you can obtain a personalized nutrition plan for each member of the family. A healthy diet will help your children build bodies that go the distance. Here is what they need most each day.
Food Group
Serving Size
# of Servings
A Serving Looks Like...
Grains bread, cereal, rice, pasta*Go for whole grains at least 1/2 of the time.
- 1 slice bread- 1 oz cereal- 1/2 cup pasta, rice, grits, hot cereal- 1/2 English muffin, bun, bagel- 1 tortilla- 1 small muffin
Kids 6-126-9 servingsTeen Girls6-9 servingsTeen Boys9-11 servings
1/2 cup = tennis ball1 oz. = a large fist
Vegetables
- 1/2 cup juice- 1/2 cup cooked - 1 cup raw, leafy
Kids 6-123-4 servingsTeen Girls3-4 servingsTeen Boys4-5 servings
1/2 cup = tennis ball1 cup = a large fist
Fruits
- 1/2 cup juice- 1 medium fruit- 1 cup berries- 1/2 cup canned - 1/2 grapefruit- 1/4 cantaloupe- 1/4 cup dried
Kids 6-122-3 servingsTeen Girls2-3 servingsTeen Boys3-4 servings
1/4 cup = golf ball1/2 cup = tennis ball1 cup = a large fist
Dairy Products
- 1 cup milk- 1 cup yogurt- 1 oz cheese- 1/2 cup cottage cheese, pudding, frozen yogurt
Kids 6-122-3 servingsTeen Girls3+ servingsTeen Boys3+ servings
1 oz cheese = 4 dice
Meats & Beans
- 2-3 oz cooked, lean meat or fish- 2 tbsp peanut butter- 1 egg- 1/4 cup nuts, seeds- 1/2 cup cooked peas or beans
Kids 6-122-2.5 servingsTeen Girls2-2.5 servingsTeen Boys2-3 servings
3 oz meat = deck of cards2 tbsp = ping pong ball1/4 cup = golf ball1/2 cup = tennis ball
Tuesday, February 10, 2009
VALENTINES WOES
I can remember one year we went out for dessert with some friends and then hiking on Fatmans Loop in Flagstaff. There was a blanket of snow on the ground and a full moon. It was beautiful and not even too cold.
Last year we went out for a movie at the mall and then for Italian food downtown Heredia. I think we will not go out to eat this year. I really cook better than any of the restaraunts around here and don't feel like waiting in line in San Jose.
Maybe I will think on the lines of something besides food! Now that is a novel thought, focus on something besides food. Is there any other way to celebrate than without food?
Monday, February 9, 2009
HAPPY VALENTINES DAY
No this is not a plug for the good old PO, we have left that far behind us. Different life for a different time. It is interesting to see the cuts the Po is making in light of the economic crisis. I'm sure that with Rick having over 20 years in it would have taken awhile to trickle down to him, but it would get there for sure.
The biggest hit we would have taken if we were still in our old lives, would have been to my business. Most of my beloved clients were in the housing industry in some form or other. I wish all the best and send really good juju vibes to my predecessor all the time. But I do realize that at times massage may seem like a luxury. Let me see do we eat this week or do I go get a massage, let me think about it.
This is a good time to know massage and practise on each other. I say that very tongue in cheek because we have three freakin massage therapists in this house and I can't get anyone to work on my poor sore legs!
By the way the message the kids are sending in case you missed it Eye, Love, You!
Saturday, February 7, 2009
COSTA RICA RECORD BREAKERS
Friday, February 6, 2009
100 POST PERFECT FOR VISION BOARD
I have had some time to think more about the lecture yesterday. Which by the way I owe my hubby a big thank you as he bought the ticket for me for my Valentines present, pretty sweet ha?
One thing that I could relate to that was said was the fact that if you have goals, that you are truly passionate about, the only limits to achieving these goals are in your own mind. That puts a lot of explanation for the success of a vision board. With the board you are actually able to see what it is you want and that makes it just a little closer to you and more attainable.
The thing to remember is that if someone else has it, why shouldn't you have it also? What is preventing you from having any and everything you want in life? If Nick can have anything he wants in life, with no arms or legs what excuse do we have for not getting everything out of life that we desire?
On my list of 100 I wanted to visit an island with my family. We have been to Hawaii twice with our family and now live in Costa Rica, which is close enough to an island for me. So you might want to be careful what you ask for you may just get it. "You better be sure you want the consequences of what you want."
I definately challenge everyone to try the vision board, what can it hurt?
Thursday, February 5, 2009
NICK VUJUCIC
Wednesday, February 4, 2009
LAW OF ATTRACTION IN REALITY
Last night my hubby opened his Costa Rica newspaper, which he buys to practise his Spanish and low and behold who is in the paper? Nick Vujicic ! I have learned there is no such thing as serendipity, or any coincidinces, so figured I was supposed to go see him speak.
Turns out he will be in San Jose tomorrow morning. He gets done about the time it will be time for me to teach, so it worked out perfect. I do have to give up my morning run, but hopefully the weather will clear by tomorrow so I can get it in then.
The weather has not been cooperating with us the last couple of days. It was very cold and rainy and drizzly all day. Hoping this cold front will be done and blow through quickly. Our poor students and clients today were real troopers, cold troopers, but troopers none the less.
Tuesday, February 3, 2009
SOME THINGS NEVER CHANGE
Yesterday my daughter was at the park down the street with her boy-friend. We don't call him a boyfriend because she is only 15 and that is not allowed. So we just call him her boy-friend. At any rate they were down there watching the kids play and taking her dog for a walk.
He has been having trouble with an ex-girlfriend since he started hanging out with the gringa, or my daughter. A bit of a jealousy issue. So her new boyfriend comes up and starts beating up on this kid. My daughter did not know what to do and just grabbed his arm and tried to get him to leave the park.
As they were leaving the kid came charging at them from the left side. The deal is my daughter can't see out of her left eye, her boy-friend luckily caught what was comming and shoved her out of the way. He got thrown into the gate of the park and the guy pulled the gauges out of his ear and pulled his sweatshirt off of him. Thank goodness the park supervisor was on the ball and had called the police. They came and got his shirt back and told the other guy to leave him alone.
My daughter was really cute. She brought him home and got him two Aleves and some ice and of course lots of sympathy. Of course for her it brought back lots of bad memories about her brother and I was surprised how affected she was. The good part was she begged him to let it go and not retaliate. I guess she has learned something from the older brothers.
Another good thing is she knows it does not just happen in Costa Rica!
Monday, February 2, 2009
COMPUTER GEEKS
This is why he loves working from home though seriously. He works a couple of hours, goes walk downtown for treats with the baby, or just hanging around.
Does it look like she is workin to you? Laptop on the lap, texting someone and listening to the music, ok I can't really see how this is doing school work at all.She argues that texting is working on spanish, which it is, and chatting with gringo friends is working on her spelling. O.K.
Does it look like she is working? I guess playing Purble Place and listening to Bob Dylan can count for something, just can't figure out what.
I guess the fact that she can bring up Limewire and her games and play by herself at the age of 5 is something in itself.
Computer is definately the wave of the here and now and she has an edge on that for sure.